Many of you reading this will know that Brenda and I lost our oldest son in January 1975. That seemed to be a catalyst in our lives. I became a Christian, and we eventually became members of the Sparta Free Methodist Church. One other member was Beth Pulsifer. Beth and her husband Bud Pulsifer were among those who supported Brenda and me through those toughest years without our first born son. Recently we went to visit Bud and Beth as Beth was on her literal death bed.
Brenda and I went into Beth's bedroom hoping she would know us and that we were there and praying for her. I spoke in a strong voice hoping she would recognize me. Brenda hugged her and told her we were there. She appeared totally unresponsive. I spent the next half hour or so visiting with Bud in the living room and then told Brenda it was time to go.
Brenda went into Beth's room to say good-bye and as she bent over to Beth, she whispered, "Rock my little Billy for me when you get to heaven." And then the only acknowledgment of our presence, Beth strongly squeezed Brenda's hand, in response. Beth went to heaven the next day and we know that our son has been caressed by one of our close friends.
Someday we will follow. I hope you do too!
Bill Shafer
